Some people adopt this blanket statement of positivity as having to be unrealistically happy about everything. Positivity is about acceptance, it is about trusting that one day, it will all make sense.
Just breathe. And understand there is never personal growth without a hardship and a lesson truly learned.
Maybe this is a little twisted and contradicting, but part of me feels a sort of release when I am going through a hard obstacle. I do not believe anything is random, and I do not believe you are ever handed anything that is too much for you to handle. When it rains it pours, yes- but instead of burying yourself in these things that have taken place, listen. Listen to what life is trying to tell you. Use your struggle as a tool, and truly (truly, from your heart) learn from it.
This is called growth. I feel so lucky that certain situations have crossed my path at such a young age. I will be so much more prepared in many aspects of my life thanks to these lessons.
I am not sure how I feel about the saying “Real Eyes Realize Real Lies”- at least not the way I interpret it.
To me, Real Eyes are honest. Humble. Transparent.
Real Eyes may have pain, or they may not- but they never have deceit. Or malicious intent.
Real Eyes do not have an agenda because they don’t need one. Because they don’t want one.
An agenda is nothing but an archive with alphabetized lies, or, depending on the person, they could also be chronologically organized.
The thing with Real Eyes is that they are naïve. Their naïvete is their purity, and it is the reason their mind does not visit dark corners- where hurt lies and where lies lie.
To Real Eyes, there is no option, no other road to take, than one of truth- because they realize, what is the point in a lie, anyway?
Their fault (or blessing) is that they only see the beauty in others, and they do not see the logic behind these dark corners- so they are blinded to them.
Real Eyes are too beautiful to realize Real Lies.
Interestingly, there is also a parallel to this.
Real Lies only know rough edges. They expect deceit, they expect hurt. Real Eyes seem too good to be true to Real Lies.
So they fear them.
This is when you realize ignorance is a double-edged sword.